On to Charleston

…and we’re driving to North Charleston. We got lost for a minute GPSed our way to our North Charleston Marriott Hotel, which was minimalist swank. I was like, “OK, Mr. K!” We were pretty tired from driving. (I haven’t touched the steering wheel yet). Whew! We rested that night and were ready to meet the day for Charleston sites. The restaurant we wanted for breakfast was closed, so we ate at the one next to it. Marie’s Diner is a neighborhood restaurant, that was meh, but we were pleased to meet the Police Chief of North Charleston, and he was Black. Of course, Mr. K. had to talk with him about his “ministry,” Khan Academy. “Think about how many kids he can reach!”

We hit the road to Charleston and upon arriving, we drove around to see the historical splendor of the architecture there. Then we hunted down the Charleston Visitor Center for planning. The moment my feet hit the pavement of this town filled with history, I could feel the powerful energy of this city where the ravages of slavery started. So, of course, we asked for a Black Tour. We had a wait for the tour, so the guide suggested we walk to tour The Rhett-Aiken Mansion and its slave quarters.

We stepped down from the lobby to tour the building in the back of the mansion, the slave quarters. Painful? Yes. Feeling the depth of the experience of our Ancestors, Mr. K. and I acknowledged the resiliency of Black people.

Aiken-Rhett Mansion, image by Wikimedia Commons
Slave Quarters

Just touring the grandeur of the “big house,” as compared to the sad slave quarters, told us we would not seek any more of the Antebellum mansion experience. We were ready for our Black tour.

Charleston’s #1 Gullah Geechee, Black History, & Porgy & Bess

combination City Tour

This is how the tour pamphlet reads, and the tour was all that and more. Al Miller is a quintessential tour guide that taught us everything we needed to know about Charleston’s Black culture. He explored Gullah history and, at intervals, spoke their language, even teaching us a few idioms. We got off the bus to pay homage to the big mama, Angel Tree of John Island in Charleston, and Al told us how the legend reads that she carries the ghosts of slaves with her and that sometimes they appear.   What?!

We were treated to hear the history of the opera, Porgy & Bess, created in Charleston by Gershwin. He told us about Gershwin’s affinity for jazz, and how jazz influenced the opera. Miller is a member of an ensemble that performs Porgy & Bess and he plays several characters, one being Sportin’ Life, the villainous minx.. Miller stopped, stood, and in a booming baritone, sang “It Ain’t Necessarily So.” We were thrilled!! He also took us to church.

Miller is a cousin to 4 of the 9 Emmanuel AME Church members killed by Dylan Roof. He drove to the church and showed us where Roof entered. Then he shared the history of his family’s historic church and he recounted the strength of the woman cousin that expressed forgiveness for the murderous actions. Miller also admitted he could not be as generous with his forgiveness. Again, painful.

Miller gave us a glimpse into the church services he was used to. He clapped a rhythm and had us mimic him. Then, he started to clap in a syncopated way, as we kept the steady beat, and he sang again this time gospel. What a guide!

Of course, there was so much more he gave us, including tips and sad tidings about many of the restaurants. Some of the Black restaurants did not survive Covid. As he closed his tour, he pitched his book, Tourists Can Say the Darndest Things!  . Mr. K. gifted me the book, and I received an autograph and an agreement that he would appear in my blog and magazine. I have only started to read his book, and I am already laughing/crying as I learn even more about the history of this fascinating city. Thank you, Al Miller, for introducing us to where and how Black America entered this country and in spite of challenges, thrived.

Phillips Simmons sculpture and sound exhibit ,
Samuel “Goat” Smalls, the reall Porgy
Al Miller, Tour Guide, Marker signifying that Charleston is the home of the anthem, “We Shall Overcome,” Emmanuel AME Church, The Tree, and the grave of the real Porgy

Miller schools us on “The Color of Money”

Meeting Place

Remember this?

 

After finishing the tour, we were really hungry and decided to try the place suggested by our tour guide, Hyman’s Seafood, on Meeting Street. We were met with a tray of hush puppies, a hello snack to waiting customers. (I didn’t succumb!) To watch with no wait, we chose sidewalk dining and our wonderful server took our order. In Mr. K’s style, he began to chat with a family waiting in line in front of our table. He invited the elder mother to sit at our table, rather than stand in line. (That’s Mr. K.!) While the family entered the restaurant, our low-country boil came with hush puppies, (This time, I succumbed).

While dining we made friends with Phil and Tiffany Oliveira a delightful young couple dining next to us (via Mr. K. again). We were having so much fun that our waitress summoned the owner of Hyman’s, Eli Hyman. He shared his family’s history with the restaurant, and we swapped quips about raising family. It was clear that service was at the core of the success of this establishment. We went back to our hotel feeling full of great history, fine food, and friendship.

Notes of positivity are given to customers and this sign is plastered to the front of the window.
Thanks, Tiffany Oliveira
Our server and Tiffany and Phil Oliveira, young folks making us smile.

The next morning we made it to the restaurant next to the Meh one, The Junction Kitchen; and we chose vegetarian splendor for breakfast. We headed towards Charleston and decided to walk downtown Charleston before heading out to Hilton Head. We did not know if the famous Charleston Market was open. So we opted to get on the road to Hilton Head.

I don’t feel a bit bothered by pages unturned in Charleston. I know I will open this book again to the history, the sights, and the cuisine of this spirited city. Next, Hilton Head!

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Not to be discounted, Charleston carries the energy of a sordid history, past and recent.  While feelings emerged, so did the appreciation of the beauty of the city and the blessing of being with a partner who appreciates all that I do.  (The girls I travel with do too!). We met fine folks; it’s always part of a travel package. We attract them, and so will you.   I encourage us all to travel.  I don’t care if it’s to the town next door.  It’s where our perspective broadens, where our spirit grows. 

Beloved I pray that you may prosper in all things… – 3 John 1:2

No matter how full the river, it still wants to grow. ~ Congolese Proverb

 โ€œIf you do not change direction, you may end up where you are heading.โ€ Lao Tzu

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…Brief Visits

On the road from Charlotte, we stopped for a brief visit to meet “The Boyz,” Mr. K’s “family” of mechanics in Columbia. They tried to move him to the Shoals with me; I was like, “No, you guys take good care of him.” They agreed and admitted to the strength of their kindred friendship.

We made our way to Augusta, GA. No touring sites, but a great visit with old friends of mine, Cedar and Rodell Lawrence, and I finally, met their stunning daughter, Raegena.

The Lawrence family has retired beautifully from academia, with a home ready for visitors (hint, hint). While Cedar, Raegena, and I spoke of soul journeys and creating a She-shed for Cedar, Rodell and Mr. K. found they had so much in common, and were so encapsulated by their many life stories, we had to call them several times to come to the beautiful lunch prepared by Cedar. What?!

Cedar and Raegena flanked by much of their art collected during their travels and stations in higher education.
Mr. K., Victorine, Cedar, and Dr. Rodell Lawrence

Although brief, we had a wonderful visit and promised to return for a Lawrence tour of the Penn Center and to see the University of South Carolina, which holds their hearts.


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Nothing like rekindling spirits.  We have experienced so much this past year, visits like our time spent with the Lawrence family remind us of the importance of staying connected; how we must affirm our collective strengths, beauty, and resilience. (Pictured:  Two COVID survivors, a Caregiver, and a Cancer survivor).  We are blessed.

Oh…not to forget “the Boyz.”  I witnessed the strength of making family wherever we land in our life. Indeed, blessed!

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And So It Begins! Charlotte, NC

Here we go…here we go!!!

First of all, I flew. I FLEW! That’s a big deal, post-COVID. I had a pleasant flight experience to Charlotte, NC, with absolutely no hitches. Mr. K was at the airport waiting for me, and off we went to our hotel. Mr. K and I are big-time GPSers. So, Mr. K. found our Wyngate destination near the airport in an area that was rather seedy. I was like…uhhh. FYI, there are several Wyngate hotels in Charlotte. We were at the wrong site. Always check your address before checking your GPS.

We settled in, I unpacked, and off we went to meet Kobi and Emory, Mr. K’s daughter and granddaughter. Our first-time meeting is encapsulated in one word – delightful; they were both down-to-earth, engaging, lovely women. Emory has a passion for writing, which is fed at Brown University. (Y’all know I couldn’t leave our visit at just one word, and don’t think I didn’t ask Emory to grace Garden Spices with her words). What?!!

Eating Charlotte

Inside Leah and Louise, North Charlotte

We ended our visit with Kobi and Emory hungry to taste Charlotte’s cuisine, and Kobi suggested what she considers to be the best restaurant in Charlotte, Leah and Louise. Unfortunately, we were too late and only experienced this…

…instead of this:

Cuisine at Leah and Louise, A Modern Juke Joint Camp, Camp North End
SARU Ramen, Camp North End

We were disappointed, but since we were already in Camp North End with stalls offering a myriad of choices, we landed at SARU Ramen and ordered the ramen Tonkutso noodles with bone broth, meat, and veggies. Here’s the thing. You order ramen…you eat noodles, right? You do unless the noodles are on top of a deep cup and you have to stir up all the goodies to get the full breadth of the experience. Of course, Mr. K. and I did not know this until I nosed over to the next table and noticed how they were eating. By this time, we had eaten quite a bit of our noodles. We stirred and really enjoyed our ramen. (Now, when somebody says they are eating ramen, I won’t think of the college dorm noodles).

Gotta Have My Art

The next day we let our hotel feed our stomachs for breakfast and The Harvey B. Gantt Center feed our souls. Thank goodness it was open, and we were able to view the wide collection of art by African Americans. From contemporary to ancient works, the center was filled with the cultural treasures that define Black art.

Our visit wasn’t long enough to sample the many cultural spices of Charlotte, but we were there long enough for me to taste the flavor of this city. It is progressive and high-end from the eye. Due to COVID, so many places had limited access, but the people were diverse, and every one of them was masked, indoors and outdoors. Mr. K. drove me through many areas of the city from North Charlotte and Midtown, to South Charlotte, Piper Glen, where his daughter lives. He says it won’t be my last visit, and I can’t wait to get back there to really dig into all Charlotte has to offer.

Joy Juice

I did have one more event. I met one of my “daughters” for the first time, Carla Renae, from SugarPearl’s. Never met so much joy, exuberance, with humility and beauty to boot. The only thing…we didn’t get a chance to have her cook for us.
NEXT VISIT!!!

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Where Do I Start?

I’m starting with me!   Y’all, I been traveling, but before I started, I had to come to terms with what I did during COVID. I ate and sat… and sat and ate, had a bout with COVID, which made me lie down, but afterward, I resumed my daily routine.  A hot mess, I was. After I got vaccinated, I knew I was ready to hit the road with Mr. K. and had to do something soon, so I decided to Noom. What?!!

Yep.  I bit the bullet and joined Noom, a different kind of eating program.  They got ya’ girl doing psychological warfare on crazy eating, serious accountability. I got all kinds of studies,  on anything from dialectical thinking to endocrinology, but what really helps me dig in are a lesson and a tool:

Lesson:   I have a thought, which triggers me to take action; if that action is against my well-being, my consequences are contrary to my ultimate desires.  Tool:  I got an “elephant,” (I call him Trumpet), that likes to eat and wraps me in his trunk when I eat what does not serve me, and I got a “trainer/rider,” Tara, that tames Trumpet and soothes me into doing the right thing.  Oh, I let Trumpet have his way, from time to time.  I need his assistance – to be able to identify him.  Noom makes me think and act like I have some sausage sense.

I got a bazillion tools that assist my process, and they are in concert with all my daily spiritual practices – meditation, mindfulness, what I talk about all the timeNo food is off-limits, but Noom’s got me learning how to enjoy the food I choose and not ingest the copious amounts I felt I had to eat to be sustained.  See this picture?

In Charleston, SC with Mr. K. and a Low Country Boil

Now, there was a time when I would have lit into that food until it screamed for mercy. HELP!!! But Mr. K. and I shared every bit of food we had on our vacation, and I even had bites of his dessert. What else?

I learned something really important; that sitting on my behind for hours at a time is the equivalent of smoking – it’s deadly. I turned 71 on May 14th. I intend to be here. You think I’m not up every two hours, walking, marching, dancing, doing whatever I can to save my life? Y’all betta’ get up too!

No, I have no “Before and After” pictures to show you, and the scale has only moved 15 pounds since March, but Y’all, my clothes fit again! I feel good, healthy, and confident that the results I need to find my balance will come. Of course, I’ll take you on my journey, but we got other stuff to talk about first.

Mr. K. and I were vaccinated, and we have been seriously vacationing. What?!! Stay tuned!!

Image: Food from SugarPearl’s

Web MD on Noom


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Here’s the thing…all that stuff I preach about meditation, intention, frequency, and balance apply to every aspect of our living, including eating.  Today, I feel I have found something that reminds me of what I know.  I hope you find what you need outside to remind you of what you have inside, that takes you to your balance.

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You My Mama!

So, everyone that has had any recent contact with me knows that my digital magazine, Garden Spices Magazine, was hijacked.ย  Yes, directly after the George Floyd verdict, my site was hit and left with articles written by the devil itself.ย  The tunes sung were about Black trans athletes, Blacks against whites, George Floyd was a criminal, you get the picture.ย  I was devastated, but not as outdone as my warrior, daughter, Camille.

Y’all know I’m Miss Spirituality.ย  So, while Mr. K and I were set to travel (road trip, road trip!), I decided I would leave my computer home to release and let go of my magazine troubles; to let God have its way.ย  And whoa…God worked through warrior Camille to get my magazine up and running and to help track down the culprit.ย  Although we have not yet found who committed the terrorism, Spicy will be making a guest appearance in the new issue of Garden Spices!!ย  Oh yeah…it’s done!ย  Mr. K and I were driving through Atlanta jammin’ย  to Mystical’s Bouncin’ Back, and I was thinking of the terrorists as I rapped with Mystical,

“You keep bumping me against the wall
Yeah I know I let you slide before
But until you seen me trust me
(You ain’t seen bouncin’ back)…

Ah stick ya chest out, keep your chin up
‘Cause sometimes you gotta get knocked down to get up.” – Mystical

You guys already know how I am.ย  I’ll find God in anything, including rap music.ย  What?!!

Let’s look at Miss Irene, my mother.ย  She didn’t want us to worry about her, so she moved from her beloved Chicago to Bama. ย  If you knew her, you knew a woman who expressed gratitude for every nuance of her life, was fierce, and had a life well-lived/loved.ย  She was incredible and a great mentor.ย  However, she never stopped exclaiming how much she learned from me, even during her last years.ย  I now find myself shouting like my mama.ย  I learn so much from my daughter, Camille.

I tease and call her “The Dragon Lady,” and if you know her activism, then you know why.ย  However, that’s not what I want to talk about.ย  Beyond her activism, I am in awe of what she does to stay centered and how mindful she is.ย  She moves her body at least one hour daily, prays, meditates, eats well, and reasons beyond my expectations or ability.ย  When complimented, she always says to me, “You my mama,” giving me the credit for how she rolls.ย  I dare say that as we age, our mother status shifts, and we see ourselves through our daughters.ย  And although vice-versa is true, this shift still feels complicated.ย  How do our daughters know so much about navigating life? Sometimes, it downright makes me mad that her thoughts are so much more logical than mine.

Next week, I’ll be 71 years old, and my daughter is teaching me when to hold ’em and foldem; how much information to release and when to stop running my mouth.ย  Y’all know I have yet to learn my lesson; I tell y’all everything!ย  She’s always on me about being too judgemental, nick-picky, and bossy, and swears I don’t know how to ask for what I’m worth.ย  Guess what?ย  She’s right, but it just don’t feel right coming from someone you birthed and bathed. What?!

What does feel right is to take this moment to thank Camille for tapping into and expressing the Mother-God within her.ย  Thing is, Mama-God resides within all of us through intuition, compassion, awareness, strength, and of course, nuturing.ย  Recognize her when you see/feel her; she’s everywhere present, just like Father-God.ย  So, of course I want to wish you all , every age and gender, a Happy Mother’s Day.

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Motherhood has played a powerful roll in every faith practice.ย  Mr. K and I went to visit a village that practiced African spirituality, and were told that the Chiefs seek counsel with the women.ย  Then there are so many stories about the role Mary played with Jesus, including birthing him and releasing him to do his work with a mama nudge “His mother said to the servants, ‘Do whatever he tells you.'” (John 2:5).ย  “In the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna pointed out to his disciple Arjuna that women are as worthy and as capable as men of achieving liberation, or moksha.”ย ย 

Recognize, honor and celebrate the mother within you.ย  We so bad, the universe gave us a holiday. What?!!

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!ย  That’s what!

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Donโ€™t forget to check outย Garden Spices Magazine, Celebrating our differences.

Eyes Wide Open: To AL Activists

There he is again, that crow. Every time you think hisย cast of darknessย has diminished, it’sย back again. Heย hovers over what heย thinks is his domain,ย swooping downย on folks he feelsย resemble him. He isย personifiedย by those who feel thatย his presenceย willย purifyย their land. He is their totem; they haveย kidnapped and laid claimย toย the crowย the way they do with everything they touch. They haveย stigmatizedย him.

How could the crow, aย symbol of spiritual transformation,ย be distorted? Name him;ย call him Jim, andย POOF..he transforms into this repressive tyrantย that flies in your face, moving you back,ย back to whereย he thinks he can capture you, encage you. He’s slick, too; he thinks you don’t see him coming, but yourย eyes are wide open.

Eyes wide open, youย cast a wide netย to captureย “Jim”ย ย and reclaim the crowย to its originalย symbolย of transformation.ย “Black is the new Jim!” Eyes wide open, (you know youย dare notย blink), you must nurture “Black;” fight, if you must, to realizeย her strength, beauty, and determination, to realize truthย and justice.ย ย Jimย hasย no power or placeย in your existence, as long as youย keep your eyes wide open.ย 

AL Legislature SB152 Bill against Florence protest.

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I had to use the image of this powerful pin to symbolize BLACK, Pin by Takara
Protesting Confederate Monument in front of Lauderdale County Courthouse
Downtown Florence Protest

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Our young folks are making “good trouble,” but we are vigilant, keeping a protective lookout for old “Jim.”  We do what we can, post, speak, pray, and hold the consciousness that truth always outshines the darkness.  Our eyes are wide open to recognize what must change and to initiate it however we can.

“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”John 1:5

“Hope is being able to see that there is light despite all of the darkness.”
~ Desmond Tutu
 
“One may not reach the dawn save by the path of the night.”
~ Kahlil Gibran
 
“Be a full bucket, pulled up the dark way of a well, then lifted out into the light.”   
~ Rumi 

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Abundance Bakery and MY Upside-down Cupcakes

So, I was commenting on a post about what identifies Chicago, (thanks, Lorraine), and I posted a picture of Abundance. Bakery.ย  I couldn’t believe that I was publishing an issue of Garden Spices Magazine on the topic, Abundance, and that I had not thought of my Chicago crave or the place that satisfies it.ย  My must-have on my visits…the delectable Uncle Villy’s Upside-Down Cupcake(s), from Abundance Bakery.ย  Notice the plural?ย  Just one won’t do. ย  I can never wait long enough to get to the Bronzeville bakery to buy one; Co-owner,ย  my sistah-friend, Janice Ball has to bring me my stash, which I guard and savor like Cujo.ย  I’m like the Godfather eating his cannoli; it’s serious.ย  What?!!!

Quick story:ย  My friend, Pat Kline had a gathering for me at her home.ย  As usual, friends mingled throughout her home.ย  I was upstairs when Janice rang the doorbell and entered the kitchen.ย  As grace would have it, I was by myself in the kitchen, where she handed me my golden goose – the cupcakes.ย  I went into stealth mode and hid them behind one of the appliances.ย  Was there enough to share?ย  Never…until I get my first bite. I went back downstairs to mingle.ย  Venturing back upstairs for whatever, (certainly not to have a bite of cupcake), I noticed one of my nieces, Iman, eating one of my an Uncle Villy.ย  I looked at Pat, with horror and asked, “Where did that cupcake come from?”ย  She pointed to the bag that was clearly mine.ย 

Pat tried to tell me that Iman loved the cupcakes as much as I, and I was like, “Nobody, but nobody loves them cupcakes like I do, and you have clearly kicked the dog by giving some of mine away!”ย  Of course, we laughed, not for real and I had at least one more cupcake to quench my craving for the evening.ย  Of course, Janice promised to bring more.

By the way, we always make at least one stop at Bill and Jan’s Abundance Bakery.ย  They are old friends, like family that have kind hearts, but they know they definitely have some fine, soulful bakery.ย  Oh yes, they have plenty to choose from, and my friends make their selections, but you know my fave, those caramel cupcakes carry Chicago home with me.ย  What?!!


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Did you miss the part about Jan bringing me her/my Uncle Villy’s Upside-down Cupcakes?ย  That’s the kind of blessings I dwell in on my visits to Chicago.ย  I am nestled in a wealth of warm friendships that laugh, cry, pray and always love.ย  May you cherish your family/friends old and new.ย  We breathe for loving.ย  Ase’

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No Vaccine for Victorine on Valentine’s

What is happening?!!!  Why is it that everyone I know is vaccinated but moi?!!!  I mean the search is a challenge I wasn’t ready for.  I just knew that when the site opened for the 65+ year olds in Bama, that I would be one of the first to receive one.  I signed up to be notified.  So, of course I thought this meant I would be scheduled somehow.  No?  Oh well, I’ll just get up at 5:30AM and get to the site at 6:00AM.  Just drive up and take my rightful place to get vaccinated.  Oh wait…there are a few more cars…more…more...around the corner more.   “I ‘ll go back a few hours later.”  More cars, wrapped around two corners now.  Thank goodness a policeman alerted me that most these cars were here for their second shot.  “They only have 100 vials today; you might as well go home.”  What?!!!

I was listening to NPR programming, when they announced that Walmart would be giving the vaccine.  I hightailed it to a store at 8:00AM, walked around Wally World for an hour, (I’m not a fan, but I shopped that day thinking it might give me “favor” in getting vaccinated).  Nine o’clock sharp, I stroll up to the now-opened pharmacy, first one there, only to be told that I have to schedule online.  Hah!  no problem for me; I live on the computer.  I Google Walmart.com, only to meet an error code – no vaccines yet.  I call the pharmacy to alert them.  I am told they will fix the error.

I know all the tricks.  I leave my tab set for Walmart, so I won’t miss a beat, checking each time I think about it to see if the error is fixed.  I swear, all I did was blink, when my girlfriend, Judy Claytor texted me that her cousin got her appointment with Walmart!  I scurry to get mine,  this is what I get:

Needless to say, I checked every Walmart from here to Timbuktu; nothing…nada. Jacqueline Johnson tried to move mountains for me, (bless her heart), alerting me to every place she would hear about landing the shot, but nothing. Do you hear me? Nothing! All my friends are bragging, “I’m going back for my second shot.” I’m like, “WHAHHHHH (t)!”

I want my shot now! I can be patient. The main thing is I don’t want any of you to feel guilty  ABOUT GETTING YOUR SHOTS and telling the world.  Mr. K., don’t feel badly about leaving my house early and securing your vaccination here in Bama, instead of SC.  No, don’t feel bad, just GET ME VACCINATED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Oh…and Happy Valentines Day. 


Joy Juice

I love to laugh with y’all.  How wonderful so many people are getting vaccinated, tending to the possibility of our nation ridding itself of this pandemic.  (love) No vaccination?  They will be allocating to more sites, (love), on time.  Always, God steers my time.  (LOVE)Ase’

“It’s all good/God/love” – Victorine

Mr. K’s Valentine’s orchids, (as if y’all haven’t seen them all over Facebook. What?!!)

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 Victorine, Bio

Author of  Be S.A.F.E., StillAware, Faithful, Excellent, now available on Kindle Amazon as an e-book.

โ€œโ€ฆthe book title and its content are intended to be a whisper, reminding us that by taking the time to connect with our spiritual self, we can center through anything and that we are forever within the bubble of Godโ€™s protection.โ€

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Blogs, Websites and Posts, Oh My!!

I got one thing to say.  Now you already know better than that.  I have so much to say about creating and navigating sites till I had to cry my tears out loud.  First of all, did I mention I’m 70? How dare I think I could find my way through creating a website without feeling like I was walking on hot coals.  I dared; I doubled down and forged the Support, YouTubes, finding images, adding pages, customizing, and finally publishing my product.  I did this with a book, a magazine, a blog, and now, another website.  Why not hire a professional to do this “dirty” work?  I’m a Taurus, and I’m cheap frugal.  Bullish to the end.  What?!

Now that I know what to do, just contact me.  I can remember approximately the last five minutes of a process I just completed.  This stuff moves fast!  While I may not be able to walk you through your project, I’m really good at holding your hand.  I can cheer you on or validate your feelings about the page that is supposed to guide you – that page you can’t understand that may hit you with nuggets like “CSS.”  HELP!  Wait…I’m supposed to be answering your plea.

Still ain’t done!

I must admit that there are some perks offered by some web publishers.  For example, the 24/7 support allows you to bug some poor Customer Service rep endlessly.  How do you think this blog was created?  That poor WordPress rep was like, “Woman, please…don’t you understand?  We have to go over this again?”  No, not really.  You do have to pay for domain registration and extras from your publisher, and once you pay, they are at your mercy.  They have to be kind to receive a positive feedback report.  (I often wonder if I’m the worse customer they encounter in a day…surely I hope not).

All in all, I must say the gratification of completing a web project is grand.  Really, most of the time, I am in disbelief that I made it through the maze of formatting and publishing. Y’all can come along with me.  I invite you to Rant and Rave on my Camp Goldston Publishing website.  (Watch the link not work…Grrrr).  Tell me your experiences with writing or posting.  Better yet, I invite you to submit to one of my projects.  Misery/joy loves company.


Joy Juice

Yes, I’m 70, and having the time of my life doing what I love.  I travel and tell y’all about it; I get to laugh and cry with you, read your stories, and give them to the world.  I pray we all find ourselves doing what feeds our spirit.  Our souls say “Yes,”

“It’s all good/Godlove.”  – Victorine

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โ€œโ€ฆthe book title and its content are intended to be a whisper, reminding us that by taking the time to connect with our spiritual self, we can center through anything and that we are forever within the bubble of Godโ€™s protection.โ€

Donโ€™t forget to check out Garden Spices Magazine, Celebrating our differences.


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