And So It Goes…Meandering

This morning finds me in a precarious mood. I am excited about celebrating gratitude with my family. My meat and sides are ready to burn, yet I find myself burning as I process the world’s wars, the state of our nation, and the truth of aging.

As I recite the Serenity prayer, I realize my power to “change the things I can.” I know the power of voting, resistance, and speaking truth to power. However, I find it challenging to reckon with the aging process, death and dying, and yielding to the balance required to remain active, sane, and healthy.

Recently, I have experienced friends who live healthy lifestyles. They eat right, are slim, and spiritually sound. They are doing what they can to have the holistic life they desire. Yet, they find themselves stricken with illnesses that do not suit them – heart disease, strokes, knee and hip replacement. Why? My sisters and I surmised that as we age, our health experiences may result from our genetics, medical mishaps, or some abnormality that belies the truth about us. However, we do all we can to stay on this side of good health.

We have a call to live in the moment. At this moment, I find myself giving into the process of prayer and grieving for others in new ways. I’m listening to their music, telling their stories, doing Reiki, chanting, and anything that affirms who they are or who they were in this realm. More than anything, I am in constant gratitude for the whole of my existence, including you. Each moment carries with it an opportunity to give thanks. Not one will get away from me.

And so it goes…may you dwell in your blessings this Thanksgiving.


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Guiding me:

Serenity Prayer

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

Prayer for Protection

The Light of God surrounds you.

The Love of God enfolds you.

The power of God protects you.

The Presence of God watches over you.

Wherever you are, God is, and all is well.

And that’s the truth!

Gospel Playlist:

Stand & Total Praise – Donald McClurkin

Help Me Lord Jesus – Staple Singers

Deliver Me – Le’Andria Johnson, Tri City Singers

Joy – Pharrell Williams

Use Me. – Ricki Byars

Miracle – Mali Music, Jonathan McReynolds


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“Celebrate Good Times, Come On!” Chicago

I always liked that song by Kool & the Gang, but last week, we must’ve sung that song at least 30 times. I was in Chicago celebrating Mildred Bergeron, the surrogate mother to two of my oldest friends and me. She’s the only mom left among us, but oh, what a mom. She turned 95, and she was the highlight of each venue we chose to place her on the universal stage of celebration. What?!!

We took her to a Stepper’s set, and when we brought her to the dance floor and told the DJ her age, the whole room gasped in amazement. Why? She was on the dance floor doing the Twine with us! Wellโ€ฆwe are all in our 70’s, some 80’s, but 95?! When we returned to our seats, people were coming to rub elbows with her in hopes of her vibe rubbing off on them.

At her party, she danced and broke it down to the floor. (I would be crawling). And when we finished singing a Stevie Wonder Happy Birthday and left the privacy of our designated room, the whole restaurant was singing to Momma Mildred. And when they heard her age, they were shocked. One man was trying to flirt. What?!

We had a great time, four friends and their mom in gratitude for life – what a gift. There’s more.

Mama Bergeron, her daughter, Indria, and her other daughters, Janice, Pat, and moi
Mama Bergeron jamming!!!
Mama B. and Moi (top), Real daughter, Indria, and daughter, Nedra

My friend, Pat Kline, opened her home to welcome VBGold Creations, and friends came to play cards, eat, laugh, and buy my jewelry. Everybody wanted to know when/how I started making my creations. You see? That’s what we do when a Senior embarks on a new venture; we encourage them.

Bracelets and tools! #gemstones, #ancestorinspired

Yes, I’m gifted; I am supported by love/blessings, and it has no boundaries. Heyโ€ฆMama Mildred says the same thing! “Celebrate Good Times. Come On!”


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So many times these days, I catch myself in tears. Many transitions are taking place, but my tears are for the gratitude I feel – that I can emote about Samara Joy’s new song or Luther’s old one, that I see my family and friends flourishing, and for those who have touched my life. Indeed, I am in recognition of my gifts, and I hope you are too.

Tears cannot bring you joy, but joy can bring you tears. – African Proverb


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